You used to have a happy marriage, then along the way, something happened. Something that changed your marriage forever. Something that you wish never happened.
And now, that something has driven both of you apart. You have grown so far apart that you no longer understand your spouse anymore.
The warm embrace that used to exist between you has since run cold. The warm smiles have gone, and what remains are tears and cold treatment.
Your spouse has become cold. She gives you short and sharp answers. She doesn’t listen to understand but to argue, and you have lost ways to impress her.
Every simple statement turns into a fight. Every word you say has to be measured carefully. Anything you say or do can be used against you. You have lost your freedom, but what you have lost the most is the power to understand your spouse.
She has some extreme mood swings. You always have to measure your jokes because any joke that she doesn’t like can trigger her, and she goes ballistic. You cannot tell your friends because they, too, have their problems and will use yours to console themselves.
Ladies and gentlemen, how do you handle such a spouse? How do you handle those who used to laugh at your jokes but nowadays see them as insults? How do you handle someone who looks at you as if they want to murder you the next second? How do you handle someone who thinks that when you smile, you are enjoying their pain and that you are not being empathetic? How do you handle such a person?
How do you handle that person you used to love but now hate, who is a mother to your children? How do you handle that person who sees your success as a threat and a reason for her pain and troubles? How do you handle such a person? Please help.
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