Marrying is like gambling. Sometimes, you just don’t know what you have bet on. Sometimes we bet on murderers, lunatics, witches, and fools, and sometimes we bet on good ones.
A happy man is not one who is loved by his wife but one who is recognized, appreciated, and respected. Ninety-nine percent of husbands don’t need anything else.
A man who lives a happy life is one with a wife who supports and respects him. A wife who knows the roles of a wife and those of a husband. One who knows the sacrifices of the father for her children.
A man is dead inside if he has a jobless wife, a wife he does everything for but who does not give him peace. Peace of mind is very important, and it is worse if a threat to your mental health comes from those who should love you.
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A supportive wife will make a husband rich. That is why many Kikuyus are rich because they have supportive wives. Many Luhyas are poor because the majority of their wives are fools, greedy, and unreasonable.
Imagine having a wife who does not respect you even for a day. Imagine having a wife who always gives you no peace, fights, and insults you daily. Imagine living in your own house as a stranger because you fear pissing off the dragon you married… Imagine being in your house but feeling like you need to go home…
You will never progress with a quarrelsome wife. You will never succeed with a wife who thinks small, a wife who, when you fight, will tell the whole world that she bought you the only underwear you had 10 years ago. She will scream and say you have never done anything for her when all she has is courtesy of you.
As a man with a quarrelsome, unappreciative, and unreasonable wife, you are dead. You are a walking corpse. You cannot make the right decision. You cannot be productive because your mind is not at peace. If life reaches that point, it is time to move on and be with those who appreciate and recognize your efforts.
Be with someone who knows you are the man; if not, don’t get married. Why marry someone who will stress you for the rest of your life? Why not just stay single and be happy? Why stay miserable because you have “kids” whom you have no idea if they are yours? Food for thought.
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