Women, let me tell you something: you can never fight a man’s ego and win. A man’s ego is everything to him. A good man would rather lose everything, including his children than let you piss over his ego. If you are not ready to let your man’s ego rest in peace, then do not get married.
The fastest way to break a man and lose him for good is to embarrass him in public. Never humiliate your husband. Strangers might give you a feeling of support, and you might think that you have won by injuring and humiliating him, but in reality, you have lost him, for good.
Imagine a married man going to a bar or a club for the first time with his wife. All treats on the man. Then in the middle of drinking, the woman remembers her past traumas that she blames on the man. Then stands up, with hundreds of strangers around and starts to insult the ma, calling him names and calling him useless. Tell me if that man will be himself again. Tell me.
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Losing a man does not mean that he leaves his home. He can be there physically. Mostly because he knows that he has a family and he has to provide. Mostly because he knows that if he leaves, his children will suffer because he knows your incapacity of being able to take good care of them.
And so, he will be there. Physically. But his heart and mind are gone. Emotionally, he has let you go, and he does not care what happens to you or anyone close to you, provided his innocent children are okay. Now, this is dangerous because if you keep pushing him, this man will choose peace, and that will mean letting the children go. It might hurt him. He might miss them. But for the sake of peace and the sake of his life, he might choose to let go.
I am not saying that a married woman should stomach a terrible man just because she does not want to hurt his ego. No. Far from it. I am talking about men who have sins just like the other, who make mistakes, sometimes big ones, but they care, are full of love for their children and always provide. They never let you go hungry. And they always there, a shoulder to lean on. I am talking about those men.
You cannot humiliate your man daily and expect him to stand by you. To support you. Never. Unless you are one of those “independent ones.” If you are independent, you have your money and life put together, go ahead, chase him away, because you have your money to depend on.
Let me stop there.
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