Being jobless is not a crime. It becomes a crime if you condemn yourself to it. If you give up and resign to the fact that you were never meant to make money.
The worst sin you can do as a wife is to fail to help your man make money. You can be a full-time housewife and still help your man create and grow wealth.
There are five major ways you can help your man make money and both of you be happy:
Learn what he does
If what your man does is doable, and it is making money for him and your family, why don’t you join him? Why don’t you ask him to teach you his ways? Men love to be teachers and they become so proud when their wives ask them to teach them a skill or two on how to make money.
Start a small business.
Instead of just sitting idle in your house and scrolling across useless TikTok videos that add no value to your life, why not start a small business? Why not use the time you spend online to sell your product and do deliveries? Ask for capital from your man and he will give you.
Don’t be a controlling freak.
One of the dangers of being idle is becoming a controlling freak. You start getting useless ideas that your man must be put in check, his movements monitored because you fear that he is up to no good. You start monitoring his moves, questioning his whereabouts even if he is making money, and ruining his moods when he is busy at work. Why? It is because you have nothing else to do. You are idle. And an idle mind is the devil’s workshop.
Don’t gang up with his enemies.
In marriage, there is nothing like “Your enemy shouldn’t be my enemy.” No way. You cannot keep on dining with those who plot the downfall of your man and still expect him to be mentally okay and “understanding.” Why would you even do that? Are you out of your mind?
Know when he is stressed.
If your husband is the breadwinner, you have to know his well-being. Why? If he becomes sick, who will work? If he becomes stressed and loses clients, how will you survive? The best gift you can give your man is to be there for him. He might not have anyone else to tell his problems but if you become part of his problems, how do you expect him to continue being strong?
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